Allah says:“No calamity befalls on the earth or in yourselves but is inscribed in the Book of Decrees – before We bring it into existence” (Quran 57:22)
The pen has dried, the pages have been lifted: all events that shall come to pass have already been written.
Allah says:“Nothing shall ever happen to us except what Allah has ordained for us” (Quran 9:51)
Whatever has befallen you was not meant to escape you, and whatever has escaped you was not meant to befall you: if this belief were to be firmly ingrained in you heart then all hardship and difficulty would become ease and comfort.
The Prophet (pbuh) said:“Whoever Allah wishes good for, He inflicts him (with hardship)”.
For this reason, do not feel overly troubled if you are afflicted with sickness, the death of a son or a loss in wealth. Allah has decreed these matters to occur and the decisions are His, and His alone. When we truly have faith, we shall be rewarded well and our sins shall be atoned for.
For those that are afflicted with disasters, glad tidings await them: so remain patient and happy with you Lord.
Allah says:“He cannot be questioned as to what He does, while they will be questioned” (Quran 21:23)
You will never completely feel at ease until you firmly believe that Allah has already pre-ordained all matters. The pen has dried and with it has been written everything that will happen to you. Therefore do not feel remorse over that which is not in your hands. Do not think that you could have prevented these things, whether you wanted to or not.All that has been pre-ordained shall come to pass.
Allah says:“Then whosoever wills let him believe, and whosoever wills, let him disbelieve.” (Quran 18:29)
Surrender yourself: believe in preordainment, before pangs of anger and regret overwhelm you. If you have done all that was in your power, and afterwards what you had been striving against still takes place, have firm faith that it was meant to be. Do not say,’ had I done such and such, such and such would have happened,’ rather say “This is a decree of Allah, and what He wishes, He does,”
Don’t Be Sad :)